Most people change the physical locks. Nobody changes the digital ones. Sunder does.
Attorneys handle the legal split. Movers handle the physical split. Nobody handles the digital one. By the time a divorce is filed, the average person has dozens of invisible connections to their ex that continue to expose their location, communications, and home in real time.
The National Network to End Domestic Violence found that 71% of abusers monitor survivors' computer activities, and 54% track their cell phones with stalkerware. This is not rare. This is the baseline.
38% of people in high-conflict separations report ex-partners remotely controlling smart home devices: locks, lights, thermostats. Your ex does not need to be in the building to be inside your home.
Filing for divorce is a specific trigger data brokers use to re-index your personal information. Your new address is typically listed on people-search sites within 72 hours of a utility connection. Available to anyone for $19.
94% of divorce decrees contain no specific language regarding the decoupling of shared digital assets. The law does not protect you here. Your attorney handles the legal split. Nobody handles the digital one. Until now.
The average smartphone broadcasts real-time location to over 15 authorized family apps, most of which are never audited during a divorce. Turning off Find My is not enough. There are 14 other shadow apps still transmitting.
Kaspersky documented over 31,000 stalkerware cases in 2023, a 6% increase year over year. Only 37% of people even know what stalkerware is, down from 40% in 2021. Awareness is falling as usage rises.
Sunder is not a checklist you follow alone at midnight. We handle the entire digital separation for you, start to finish. You receive a Certificate of Digital Separation when every step is complete.
Your new address shows up on people-search sites within 72 hours of moving. We sweep 100 or more data broker sites and remove you from all of them. Then we keep removing you automatically for the next 12 months so new listings never stick.
Your ex knows your passwords. Maybe not all of them, but enough. We change every single one, move them into a secure vault only you can access, and set up your phone so even a correct password is not enough to get back in. Your ex is locked out permanently.
Your ex may still have full control of your home from anywhere in the world. Ring cameras, Nest thermostats, Alexa, smart locks. If they were ever set up on a shared account your ex can watch, listen, and even lock or unlock your doors remotely. We remove them completely from every device in your home and make sure nothing is left behind.
Turning off Find My is not enough. The average phone broadcasts location through 15 or more apps simultaneously. We go through every single one. Find My, Life360, Snapchat, Google Maps, your carrier plan. All of them audited, all of them documented.
If your ex seems to know things they should not know, there is usually a reason. We scan your phone and laptop for stalkerware, keyloggers, and hidden tracking software. We also run a live dark web scan during your session so you can see exactly which of your credentials are already exposed. If we find anything on your device, we document it before touching it so the evidence is preserved for your attorney.
When the session is complete, you receive a Certificate of Digital Separation. A professional document listing every account secured and every connection severed. Something tangible that tells you this chapter is done and you are protected.
If you are still on a shared phone plan your ex can see every number you call and text, including your attorney. We set up a private encrypted messaging app on your phone in minutes so your conversations stay completely between you and the people you trust. No technical knowledge required.
Your recovery contacts are the backdoor into every account you own. If your ex is still listed as your recovery email or backup phone number they can reset any password at any time. We walk you through setting up a fresh recovery contact that only you control and update every account to use it.
Every session closes with a personal sweep report for your physical space. Where to check for hidden cameras, how to find tracking devices in your vehicle, smart TVs that may still be listening, baby monitors that may still be accessible. The session protects your accounts. This report protects your space.
Every engagement is fixed-fee. You know exactly what you are paying before we begin. No surprises, no hidden costs.
The digital world keeps moving after the session ends. The Watch provides continuous monitoring so new exposure points are caught before you are aware of them. One option, one price. Most clients enroll at the close of their session.
Your clients leave the courthouse legally protected and digitally exposed. Sunder closes that gap and makes your representation more comprehensive from day one.
There is no obligation. We will walk through your specific situation, identify every exposure point, and explain exactly what the engagement covers. Confidential, discreet, and on your schedule.
30 minutes. No pressure. Everything you share is strictly confidential. Pick a time that works for you and we will handle the rest.
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