Most people change the physical locks. Nobody changes the digital ones. Sunder does.
Attorneys handle the legal split. Movers handle the physical split. Nobody handles the digital one. By the time a divorce is filed, the average person has dozens of invisible connections to their ex that continue to expose their location, communications, and home in real time.
The National Network to End Domestic Violence found that 71% of abusers monitor survivors' computer activities, and 54% track their cell phones with stalkerware. This is not rare. This is the baseline.
38% of people in high-conflict separations report ex-partners remotely controlling smart home devices: locks, lights, thermostats. Your ex does not need to be in the building to be inside your home.
Filing for divorce is a specific trigger data brokers use to re-index your personal information. Your new address is typically listed on people-search sites within 72 hours of a utility connection. Available to anyone for $19.
94% of divorce decrees contain no specific language regarding the decoupling of shared digital assets. The law does not protect you here. Your attorney handles the legal split. Nobody handles the digital one. Until now.
The average smartphone broadcasts real-time location to over 15 authorized family apps, most of which are never audited during a divorce. Turning off Find My is not enough. There are 14 other shadow apps still transmitting.
Kaspersky documented over 31,000 stalkerware cases in 2023, a 6% increase year over year. Only 37% of people even know what stalkerware is, down from 40% in 2021. Awareness is falling as usage rises.
Sunder is not a checklist you follow alone at midnight. We handle the entire digital separation for you, start to finish. You receive a Certificate of Digital Separation when every step is complete.
Your new address shows up on people-search sites within 72 hours of moving. We sweep 100 or more data broker sites and remove you from all of them. Then we keep removing you automatically for the next 12 months so new listings never stick.
We move every account into a managed password vault and replace your recovery contacts with clean accounts your ex has never seen. Then we ship you two physical security keys. Even if someone has your password, they cannot get in without the key in their hand.
We start with the router because everything else depends on it. Then we evict your ex from every smart home device. Ring, Nest, Alexa, smart locks all factory reset and re-provisioned under your account. We also sweep the network for any hardware left behind.
Turning off Find My is not enough. The average phone broadcasts location through 15 or more apps simultaneously. We go through every single one. Find My, Life360, Snapchat, Google Maps, your carrier plan. All of them audited, all of them documented.
If your ex seems to know things they should not know, there is usually a reason. We scan your phone and laptop for stalkerware, keyloggers, and hidden tracking software. If we find anything, we document it before touching it so the evidence is preserved for your attorney.
When the session is complete, you receive a Certificate of Digital Separation. A professional document listing every account secured and every connection severed. Something tangible that tells you this chapter is done and you are protected.
Every engagement is fixed-fee. You know exactly what you are paying before we begin. Payment and a signed service agreement are required before any session is scheduled.
Complete digital separation for one individual. Remote delivery via secure screen-share. Most clients are fully secured in a single session.
Everything in Full Sunder, plus extended session time, direct attorney liaison, and priority same-day response throughout the engagement.
The digital world keeps moving after the session ends. The Watch provides continuous monitoring so new exposure points are caught before you are aware of them. One option, one price. Most clients enroll at the close of their session.
Your clients leave the courthouse legally protected and digitally exposed. Sunder closes that gap and makes your representation more comprehensive from day one.
There is no obligation. We will walk through your specific situation, identify every exposure point, and explain exactly what the engagement covers. Confidential, discreet, and on your schedule.